EKAKAR- What it means? Why it is the reality of life & existence........?? Many questions may be in your mind at this time... After go through this blog U will find the truth behind LOVE... That is "EKAKAR".
We say that I am in LOVE with someone because My beloved one is very caring , he/she cant stay without me, look is beautiful, I am dependent on him/her. This is all, what society teach us, the upper sight what we see & belief.
But Love is entirely different .... It is independent of anything existing in this world. It is independent of any emotional , physical , materialistic matter. It is independent of the presence or absence of your beloved. It is independent of any expectation. Love is something that knows how to give.
The SUN-Surya Devta & The EARTH-Dharti Maa are the LOVERS. They don't expect anything from each other, doing their responsibilities,stay very far from each other, but still maintain the balance by some force - GRAVITY. They are in the state of EKAKAR means when two different things come too close too each-other to become one either physically or by some force, so that no that no one can made them apart.
In the same manner TRUE LOVERS is like SUN & EARTH, Independent of any matter. They just know how to LOVE. A reflexive action exist between both the beloveds, what one feels at one time other will automatically get a reflexive action to its belove. This all what EKAKAR do.
After entering the stage of EKAKAR, the presence or absence of your beloved makes no sense. The way u feel the touch, the care , the aroma, the softness of Ur beloved in his/her presence....The same way u will feel in his/her absence. Thats the main aim of LOVE. Its not about Expectation , Sacrifice, Happiness, Sadness.... Its the state of COMFORTABILITY , ENJOYMENT & CRAZINESS.
And U will acquire this...When u reach the state of EKAKAR i.e. to become too close to ur better half so that the beloved pair become one.
LOVE is independent of any bondages like marriage, because marriage occurs between two individuals. But when u reach EKAKAR the two souls & body becomes one, then How could one individual marry to itself.
Once Radha asked Krishna."Why don't U marry me?"
The immortal answer given by Krishna,"O my Damsel, marriage takes place between two individual & U tell me between U & Me , who is the other, as we are one". After this no more question left to Radha.
We have the evidence of Eternal LOVE, as Rukmani was the wife of Krishna , still RADHA is known as Krishna's Better-half.
Thats all I want to make understand readers, feel the insight of LOVE... automatically U will enjoy the essence of EKAKAR... THE ETERNAL LOVE
